Gentleness

 

 

2Sa 22:36 Thou hast also given me the shield of thy salvation: and thy gentleness

hath made me great

 

Gentleness, and Grace are not examples of weakness, but the learnt and

given witness of strength made tender by love.

 

We see in the life of Jesus, and many great men of God one common theme.... and

that is gentleness. It is displayed in every area of life and marks godliness as surely as

the carrying of a bible or a the wearing of a cross. Gentleness and grace go hand in

hand, where Grace means not receiving what we deserve, “Gentleness is the

strong heart under control that delivers it”.

There are occasions in our Lords Life where you may say. "Ah but how about where

he turned the tables over in the temple and drove out the money changers and dove

sellers" . I agree, but what grace the Son of God showed, what strength under control

he exhibited only to turn over a few tables and not call down legions of angels from

heaven and remove not only the dove sellers but the entire temple and city. This was

the heart under control that was gracious, and even though he saw his Fathers temple

being abused and the people misled he still replied with Grace. It was this driving

Grace that caused him to care enough for the lost and the gentleness with which he

answered his Fathers call to become the lamb of sacrifice for all mankind.

 

In our search for this strength today we have discarded beautiful gift and sought to be

strong by our own volition. Today strength is nearly always portrayed as the ability to

crush another person. In other words we are perceived to be strong by trampling those

of less strength beneath us. This example is seen in Business, it is seen on the street, it

is seen in the advertising of Body Spray and after shave, and it can even be seen in the

cars we drive.

However the strength this refers to is passing and will not last, it is centered on one

thing and one thing only the flesh. This drive for strength pushes many people to

extremes to attain it, it goes past the keeping fit or in shape stage and into stupidity.

Part of the simple truth we find in gentleness is the knowledge of the grace that is

upholding and keeping us, a gentle man is at peace with his heart and is confident in

who God has made him to be. He is not prompted by the mark of fear in his soul to

become angry and rough with those closest to him, because fear in one fashion or

another is always the seed of anger that explodes in a mans heart.

You may say I got angry with the man because he did not listen, is this not rooted in

fear and pride that just possibly we may not be who we think we are ?. A man may get

angry at the poverty of his circumstance, is this not fearing that Gods provision has

for some reason been withdrawn and he may not have what is needed to feed his

family.

Many are the fears that try and invade the heart of man, but for every fear there is the

power of Jesus Christ moving in us re- assuring and confirming his love for us and the

fact of who we truly are.

Men do not fear, do not let your anger cause a roughness to come to those that you

love the dearest. Be gentle with all, but firm with the truth because gentleness is the

yielding of our spirit to the greater Holy Spirit. It is the outworking power of Gods

love nature that is uncompromising in its message but never ceasing in its grace. 

2Sa 22:36 Thou hast also given me the shield of thy salvation: and thy gentleness

hath made me great.

King David understood this truth and this is one of the marks of his greatness, that

when fear came near to rob his gentleness this is what arose in his heart.

For thou art my lamp, O LORD: and the LORD will lighten my darkness.

For by thee I have run through a troop: by my God have I leaped over a wall.

As for God, his way is perfect; the word of the LORD is tried: he is a buckler

to all them that trust in him.

Greatness is not the outward show of strength, or the ability to be above every other

man it is the enduring knowledge and patience that comes from an unshakable hope

that is rooted in the rock of Gods promises. Many men are powerful, many men have

had position above all, but who are the ones that are remembered and who’s names

are written in history. For example who do we remember from the last century? Was

it the rich aristocrat or politician who had power and strength over many , I can think

of maybe one or two. Or do we remember the millions who fought and died for our

freedom on foreign soil, who laid down their hopes and dreams for a brighter future

on the sea, or who battled above our land to fight back the enemy bombers. No these

are the great who rested their hope in Freedom.

Ah but you may say they were rough men, unbelievers, backsliders, but at that

moment when their part was played did they not know the sweet gentleness of

knowing they had done their part in securing freedom. They were gentle in their

sacrifice following the path of their master who laid down his life too, and were

obedient unto death and living out the promises of God.

Jesus came as the lamb of God, his purpose bold his coarse set he was obedient to

death on the cross. Here we see the greatness of gentleness, when all of hell was

unleashed upon his broken body and for an instant he felt the separation from his

father, did he call down legions of angels to crush the Roman garrison and lay flat

Jerusalem. No through dry and cracked lips he asked for their forgiveness, at his

lowest point the lamb of God shattered the teeth of a wicked world by the reaching

out with the gentleness of a father for his lost and dying children.

What Father when he is away from his family and has only a phone between him and

bedside of sick child, would he lash out in anger at their sin and ignorance for not

listening, for driving to fast, climbing that high tree cliff or swimming into a strong

current. No grace and gentleness would surely cover his words, even though his heart

were bleeding, if his arms were able to hold them he would.

 

Today there is a gentle heart that wants to hold us too, be not conformed to this world

but be transformed by the renewing of the mind. Let the strength and might of

almighty God be made perfect by the outworking of gentleness in all we do.

Gentlemen, hold the door open for others

Gentlemen, stand when others enter

Gentlemen offer their seat to others

Gentlemen know the hope of Glory that has made them.